It seems impossible to imagine that the year is
almost over. What happened to all those months in between?
I remember
when 2012 first kicked in, I rang my parents to wish them happy new year. My
father said the world was going down the toilet anyway, so why bother, while my
mother immediately told me to stop wasting my money and hung up the phone while
I was in mid-sentence.
“Really,” I said to my sister, “I could have been
telling her about my incurable gall bladder disease and she’d never know!”
“Do you have
an incurable gall bladder disease?” Michelle asked.
“I’m just saying!”
I’m really not good with events that mark the
passage of time. Which is why I avoid New Year’s Eve parties like the plague.
And while I will happily show up for a house warming or a wedding, I steer
clear of anniversaries and I especially loathe birthdays.
The last birthday party I went to was my friend
Shaun’s 35th. “He’s 35?” Saffy whispered to me. “Oh my God, he looks like he’s 45! What happened?”
“Bad skin care, clearly,” said Amanda as she cast
an expertly critical eye over Shaun’s epidermis. “What is it with men?”
I imagine this is what people will say when they
come to my funeral.
“Goodness,” they’ll say as they stand patiently in
line outside the presidential palace, sweating gently in the sun. “He was 98?”
“I thought he was already dead!”
“He looked amazing for 98 though.”
“I know, right? He did not look 98!”
“What I can’t get over is how he went from writing
that silly column for 8DAYS to becoming president!”
Saffy says I shouldn’t tell people this is what I
daydream about in my spare time.
“It’s really weird,” she says firmly.
But my point is that the time just goes so quickly.
Especially if you’re not paying attention. And it’s worse if you skip your
skincare, because there’s nothing worse than being told you look 45 when you’re
only 35. That’s ten years you’ve lost through no fault of your own.
“Well, it would
be your fault if you don’t invest in some basic moisturizer,” Amanda pointed
out.
This is the sort of dialogue I find myself having
in the run up to Christmas. It’s also shattering to realize that you’ve only
just paid off your credit card bill from the previous year’s presents and it’s already
time to start making the banks rich all over again. Where did the year go?
The other day, Saffy asked me if I’d started my
Christmas shopping list yet.
“Because I don’t want any more of that Body Shop
gift baskets you’re always getting me,” she said, her formidable bosom
trembling at the memory.
“So what do you want then?” I asked.
“Well, ideally, I’d like some sparkly jewel things
from Tiffany, but I don’t know, really. Surprise me. Just nothing from Body
Shop. And nothing from Victoria’s Secret either!” Saffy added. “I’m sick and
tired of standing in front of the mirror in my underwear and knowing that I
will never look like Adrianna Lima.”
“Noted,” I said.
“I wish I was 18 again,” Saffy sniffed. “I would
have been so much less uptight!”
When I told Sharyn this, she snorted hysterically.
“Aiyoh!” she hiccupped. “She already so, how you say, so garang, how to be less uptight? The other day, hor, she meet my
husband and say that I say he go to gym a lot, and then she say, ‘Ay, show me
your stomach!’ How like that? If she less uptight, then she ask him to show her
what else, I don’t want to know!”
I sniggered at the image. “So, have you done your
Christmas list yet, Sharyn?”
“This year, I’m going to donate my present money to
charity. No need to worry about shopping! Very easy!”
“Well, that’s
no fun!” Amanda said when the news floated back to her.
“I hate it when people do good deeds like that,”
Saffy pouted. “It just makes me feel so bad! Which I guess is the point. But since
when did Christmas become such a moral issue? I just want to get lots of nice
presents and get drunk!”
I said I wanted to get the whole thing over and
done with. “It’s the same thing every year! We get useless presents we don’t
want. We spend money on people we don’t like. And we have to pretend we love
it. And then, suddenly, it’s time to do it all over again!”
Sharyn says I could learn to be less uptight. I
said at least I wasn’t asking to see her stomach.
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