I’ve been
around books my entire life. In fact, I can’t really remember a moment that
I’ve not been within easy reach of a pile of them. Growing up, we had books
everywhere, stacked on shelves, on the floor, on desks and tables, on benches
by the toilet, and even in the car.
To this day, it feels extremely odd
to walk into someone’s home and not see a single book anywhere.
My mother’s sister Wai-ling used to
be horrified when she visited and had to go to the loo and found a stack of
books in there. “I hope these are not the books you lend me, Mei-ling!” she
would say firmly when she emerged from the guest bathroom. “I don’t even want
to imagine the kind of germs that are
on them!”
“You only die once!” my mother once
replied in a vaguely ominous tone. Later, over dinner, she complained that her
sister should lighten up a little. “Maybe next time, I should tell her that we
only read with our left hand!” The
comment baffled us for months until the day my sister was sitting on the loo
reading ‘Pride and Prejudice’ and she absent-mindedly reached for the toilet
paper with her right hand.
When we went out and our parents had
to run errands, they’d deposit the three of us in a bookshop with strict
instructions to behave and to stay put till we returned. And if we were good, they
promised, we’d each get a book.
The three of us would disperse,
Michelle to the fantasy section, Jack to the travel books, while I dived into
ancient history. Like the very well trained children we were who lived in daily
fear of our mother, we sat quietly on the floor, cross-legged, gently flicking
each page, utterly absorbed in our own world. Nobody bothered us, and back
then, nobody blinked at the sight of three unattended children in a public
space. Try doing that these days and you’d be on the evening news on your way
to a court hearing for child neglect.
But that was the pattern of our
lives. When we were low in spirits, books comforted us. When there was a
special occasion to be celebrated, like a birthday or a good report card (which
in those days meant anything above an F), nothing made us happier than to
unwrap a package to find a book lying within.
Which is why when I say I grew up
with books, I mean it literally. And, in an age of Kindles and iPads, it still
gives me a thrill to walk into a bookshop, pick up a pristine volume and smell
the fresh wood cut smell of its pages.
Of course, the downside to books is
that they take up a lot of space. Especially if you’re someone like me who
can’t walk past a bookshop without sucking up at least three new books, which I
will take home, put up on a shelf, stand back to admire the new arrangement,
and then proceed to ignore it for years.
The other downside to books is that they’re
incredibly dusty. I know this because our cleaning lady Ah Chuan is forever
screaming that our flat is a health hazard. She waits till all three of us are
away on holiday and then, armed with gloves, goggles and face-masks, she
proceeds to dust and clean every single book around the house. But because she
never puts the books back in their original spot, it’s a nightmare trying to
find the volume you might suddenly want.
Like the time Saffy, on a hot fourth date, found
herself needing our ancient copy of the Kamasutra. By the time she finally
found it, she was so exhausted and sneezy, she told her date she had to have a
disco nap first. “That killed the mood fast, lemme tell ya,” she said the next
morning.
Recently, we decided it was time to cull our books.
“Every time we move, we have to also move these stupid books,” Amanda said very
reasonably. “And we never read any of
it. We just buy and buy. And they sit on the shelves getting dust and mould.”
Amanda’s plan is to throw out all the books that we’ve
read plus any book that hasn’t been read in the past year.
Saffy looked around the flat, a frown etched on her
forehead and calculated we’d be throwing out about 85% of our collection.
“It needs to be done,” Amanda said firmly. “Chinese
New Year is coming. We need to purge.”
She’s right, of course. Our book collection has
gotten out of control. But it’s all too heartbreaking.
1 comment:
Totally agree with you! I still prefer having a good book in front of me rather than an electronic copy. Something about the weight and the smell and the flipping of pages. It's all sentimental to me that I can't bear to throw any of them out!
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